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Sharing my Faith, my Family, my Friends, my Home and Gardens and teaching you about Down syndrome along the way.
Combow Family Mission Statement
To encourage others to become like Christ through loving relationships, healthy lifestyles and stimulating experiences.
"If there is any kindness I can show, or any good thing I can do to any fellow being, let me do it now and not deter or neglect it, as I shall not pass this way again." W. Penn
About Me
- Nancy C
- I am a Christian mom to 4, and enjoying every day that God gives me.
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I Never Told My Son He Couldn't Dance
I never told my son he couldn't dance.
I never thought he didn't have a chance.
I never told my son he might not read.
I only sought to plant the seed.
I never showed my son a star. That, I felt, was way too far.
I never taught my son to fly, But I gave him wings with which to try.
I never questioned God's intent. I only hoped my time well spent.
We never know what life will bring. I only know that I must sing.
I never told my son he couldn't dance,
That is why he had a chance.
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A Baby Is A Baby First
There is nothing quite like a baby…there's a lurch in the heart when we touch the beginning of a life in the small person of an infant. For some parents, the lurch is made more poignant, even painful, by the fact of their baby's diagnosis of Down syndrome.Recently, I've had the great pleasure of holding a number of soft, beautiful babies who have Down syndrome. Their parents want to find out what it all means, what they can do, what to think about the future. The first professionals to talk to the parents of babies with Down syndrome tend to discuss the differences parents may see, difficulties babies will encounter. Armed with information about what milestones their child may not reach, what problems she may have, what services they should obtain to avoid potential problems, new parents want to help their babies as soon as possible. So they come to me (and to numerous others) to get this help…to find therapy, activities, and solutions to problems that may or may not exist.We just don't know, at an early age, in exactly which ways Down syndrome may affect a child. She may be really good at cognitive activities, but have significant delays in movement… thereby falling behind her peers in playground and paper-and-pencil activities. He may be fairly good at gross motor, excelling in sports. Ocular control may be an area of need, or may be perfect. Language may be good, or may need lots of work. However, one thing we know for certain… babies don't deal with these things no matter what their chromosomes look like. They lie down and expect to be carried, cuddled, talked to, fed and generally catered to. They learn they are lovable, cute, and the center of the universe. They begin to know who their family members are, and who is the soft touch in the house in the middle of the night.If these adorable creatures have Down syndrome they are at risk for certain physical and cognitive delays. It behooves parents to keep an eye open for problems that could arise. It's important that they know something about their child's diagnosis so that they can be alert and helpful. But my belief is that the most important things that parents of babies with Down syndrome can do are exactly those things that all parents do. You know: they cuddle, feed, sing and love. Not the kind of things you need a Developmental Therapist for… or any other therapist, for that matter.I want to be clear. Young children with Down syndrome often show delays that need to be remedied so that these kids can be happy with themselves and do their very best. Very young babies with Down syndrome have specific concerns about early development. And doubtless, parents will find themselves driving this child about for ear infections, speech therapy, developmental evaluations, etc. But the main advice I have for parents of new babies with Down syndrome boils down to this:You have a beautiful new baby.There will be some areas that need work, but what you have right now IS PRECIOUS AND PERFECTLY RIGHT.
Kate Sefton, Master Developmental Therapist
Followers
Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. John 14:1-3
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